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Best tips how to Speak less Say more

Best tips how to Speak less Say more

Best tips how to Speak less Say more

Best tips how to Speak less Say more

How come I can Speak less, say more?

Lets transfer to imaginary scenario:

The moment he appeared made him look great and powerful.

Every little detail of his appearance was very carefully prepared and nothing has been left to the  chance.

People from the crowd in-front of most popular person would use their imagination to complete the way they would like him to behave, react or speak based on grandiose look of a man.

One person has wished to see him as a good father, another as a book lover and next one as a devoted employee.

For a minute when he stood on a stage, he was a real hero of minds of people.

Then he spoke his mind out and spoke and spoke and spoke some more.

It was a mistake, since he let no space for imagination and magic charm of mystery of the unknown.

And interest of masses in him vanished when he  ” said it all”.

Speak less, say more might really change your life towards your dream destination.

Best tips how to Speak less Say more

Best tips how to Speak less Say more

Low self esteem gets you speak more

Low Self confidence might bring you to situations, when you try to prove something or simply stop embarrassing silence.

This is when you would usually go into too much detail.

This is when you should remember that you are not responsible to give a report to whoever asks you a question.

You don’t have obligation of  providing explanations.

Don’t cut branch underneath yourself. Think well how much is enough to say and learn to stop.

It is not something that comes overnight, but first step is to realize that you might be harming yourself by giving explanations for every little detail to people who might want to hear just simple short answer.

On your road of you will learn to discipline yourself and work on your compassion, since you will be able to listen to the other side and see different point of view.

Speaking less will definitely help you learn to structure your speech better.

And it might cause that people will start liking you more,

since now they will be relieved of listening to your time consuming stories :).

If others want to know more, they will definitely ask.

 

Here is what Leonardo da Vinci has to say on the topic of moderate speaking:

Oysters open completely when the moon is full;

and when the crab sees one it throws a piece of stone or seaweed into it

and the oyster cannot close again so that it serves the crab for meat.

Such is the fate of him who opens his mouth too much and thereby puts himself at the mercy of the listener.

Best tips how to Speak less Say more

Keep in mind that the less you say, the more mysterious and profound you will appear. This is applicable in most areas of life. You are more powerful when you keep quiet. It is certainly a step on ” becoming-awesome”  road.

Let me share one more amazing quote on ” Examples of how to Speak less, say more” theme:

The quieter you become the more you are able to hear (Ram Dass & Kali Linux )

Please let me know in comments about your experience with speaking a lot or send me your become awesome story to admin@become-awesome.com and best once will be published in Awesome Stories :).

 

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